Sexism in Pleasure

You would think men would be in favor of women finding methods that can help them be more sexually aroused, and ultimately get their freak on but it appears sexism continues to rear its ugly head in sex.

According to Fortune, during the Consumer Electronics Show (CES), the Ose, an adult novelty from start-up Lora DiCarlo, initially won a Consumer Electronics Show Innovation Award, but later the award was rescinded and, according to the company’s owner, representatives of the company were told they would not be allowed to exhibit at the show.

The Ose’ is a robotic vibrator that can reach a woman’s famed G-Spot. Reaching the G-Spot is like climbing Mount Everest.

In the past, sex toys made for men have been part of CSE. So, why not a toy made for women. You would think men would want women to enjoy as much pleasure as men. To me, the pleasure women feel can only help men. A more sexually aware and stimulated woman is a positive for both men and women in the bedroom and outside of the bedroom.

If you look at ads on TV and social media, you would think men are the only ones that have sexual problems. We know women have sexual desire and issues, but few toys or sexual enhancements are marketed towards them. You have to wonder if guys think their role will be diminished if women have toys, pills, and other sexual helpers. If a man believes his role will be minimized, then he isn’t doing his job in and outside of the bedroom.

It’s time for men to realize that a woman’s sexual gratification is just as important as his, and it will help their relationship in the long-term. It’s is time for all the companies in the business of assisting with sexual satisfaction – most are run by men – to devote more time and resources to women.

There shouldn’t be sexism in pleasure – only satisfaction for both men and women.

Non-friend

You have probably heard this before, but a person who only reaches out to you when they need something isn’t a friend. That person is a non-friend or a worse – a leach. No one needs someone like that in their life. A friend should always reach out at least to say hello or text you to find out how things are going on in your life.

People who only contact you when they need something are irritating and quite frankly – jerks and a-holes. Here’s a small piece of advice: If a non-friend is using you – cut them off. Sometimes, you have to cut off communications with non-friends for your own good. It’s better to do that than to get frustrated for that person’s non-friendship.

On the flip-side, if you realize that you are a non-friend/leach/a-hole – get your butt in gear and be a friend. Stop using people. The only butt hole people need in their life is the one that is attached to their body. Be a better person. Be a friend.