You have probably heard this before, but a person who only reaches out to you when they need something isn’t a friend. That person is a non-friend or a worse – a leach. No one needs someone like that in their life. A friend should always reach out at least to say hello or text you to find out how things are going on in your life.
People who only contact you when they need something are irritating and quite frankly – jerks and a-holes. Here’s a small piece of advice: If a non-friend is using you – cut them off. Sometimes, you have to cut off communications with non-friends for your own good. It’s better to do that than to get frustrated for that person’s non-friendship.
On the flip-side, if you realize that you are a non-friend/leach/a-hole – get your butt in gear and be a friend. Stop using people. The only butt hole people need in their life is the one that is attached to their body. Be a better person. Be a friend.